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Ballyfin Demesne, The Ultimate Ireland Destination Wedding Venue


Built in 1820, the neo-classical Regency mansion has long been admired as the most lavish Regency mansion in Ireland, and after nine years of restoration, Ballyfin re-opened in May 2011 as a 5 star country house hotel like no other.  Since then, it has received multiple prestigious accolades, including being voted the best hotel in the world by Conde Nast Traveler and receiving the AA’s Hotel of the Year Award in 2018. If you want an Ireland destination wedding venue that is unique and private, then Ballyfin is the perfect choice.

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It offers the very best of Irish hospitality in the most beautiful surroundings imaginable.  With only twenty bedrooms, and a private one bedroom Gardeners Cottage, this 5 star luxury hotel is the perfect place for a destination wedding in Ireland.

Inside, Ballyfin is lavish, with an extensive collection of paintings which traces the development of Irish art from the mid-seventeenth century to today.  And the grounds and scenery are just as breathtaking. Stone walls enclose the 614 acres of parkland, a lake and ancient woods, delightful garden buildings, follies and grottoes. The landscape, laid out in the mid-eighteenth century, is among the finest examples in Ireland of the natural style of gardening inspired by ‘Capability’ Brown.

There are many highlights that will keep garden lovers and outdoor enthusiasts exploring for days. These include the medieval-style tower, built as a folly in the 1860’s, the walled garden with its formal borders and kitchen gardens, the abundant wildlife to be seen on early morning walks and the restored Edwardian rock garden.

“It is impossible not to be captivated by Ballyfin’s film-set-like gardens and interiors.”

~Catherine Fairweather, Net-a-Porter

What makes Ballyfin such a special destination wedding venue?

Visiting Ballyfin is like going back in time, like attending your own Downton Abbey party. As you arrive, the staff line up to greet you like the lord and lady of the manor returning to their country pile. This is just the beginning of the old world charm and traditional Irish hospitality you can expect during your stay. All of the butlers have ties to the property, so they are part of the family, and they all have a story to tell.

Although Ballyfin is described as a country house Ireland destination wedding venue, I see it more as a little oasis in the middle of Ireland. On a clear night, it’s easy to imagine what the world was like 200 years ago. With very little light pollution, the countryside is so still and serene that it feels like you’re the only people for miles around. And it’s so private that once you enter you really feel like you have arrived home. 

Ballyfin Location

Ballyfin wedding venue is set in the heart of Ireland, County Laois. Despite being extremely private, Ballyfin is conveniently located, with Dublin airport approximately one hour’s drive away, making it ideal for an Irish destination wedding venue. For guests who are hiring a car, the route is very well signposted and easy to follow. Another option is Shannon Airport, which is approximately two hours away. Ballyfin is also well placed for outings to places like Kilkenny, Birr Castle, and Emo House, and is close to several top golf courses, ensuring that guests are able to make the most of their visit to Ireland.

Ballyfin Wedding Ceremony and Reception Spaces

One of the best things about Ballyfin is that it suits so many couples. Part of the reason for this is that the house as well as the surrounding property offer multiple ceremony and event spaces. Options include a Ballroom, State Dining Room, Saloon and private bar, each impeccably renovated and sumptuously decorated with art and antiques. The gardens also have a wealth of places for ceremonies and photographs, including lawns, terraces, follies and grottoes, a picturesque lake, and a delightful Water Cascade.

In order to secure Ballyfin as your Ireland destination wedding venue, you will need to rent the entire property, but this is really what makes it so unique and gives it the feeling of a private house party. And, since you have the space to yourselves, the priority for me is on setting out the wedding design ahead of time and working within the restrictions for numbers.


The 19th century glass conservatory, with its entrance hidden behind a bookcase in the library. A Turner design, now completely restored, it is an amazing ceremony location for a smaller group (up to 80 guests). It has both expansive views of the Water Cascade and Pleasure Grounds and protection from the elements, giving you the best of both worlds if you’re dreaming of a ceremony in nature.

However, the Conservatory isn’t just a wonderful space for a wedding ceremony. It also makes a fantastic location for a welcome or rehearsal dinner or for cocktail hour. It could even be used as an intimate reception venue. 

If you’re looking for a location to wow your guests, the conservatory at Ballyfin will certainly do the trick. 


The main ground floor state rooms comprise the Saloon and Library, both magnificent rooms with interiors considered among the finest of the period in Ireland. The Saloon is placed at the heart of the house and has huge open fires for guests to gather around in winter, as well as a baby grand piano. The eighty-foot library occupies the entire south façade of Ballyfin wedding venue, with a fireplace at either end and over 5000 volumes. Both are perfection for cocktail hour or for a pre-wedding drinks reception – the kind of spaces just made for mingling. For sunny days, the library opens up onto the side lawn and has gorgeous views overlooking the fountain and lawns. The Library and Salon are linked by the magnificent Rotunda, with its Alhambra Palace-inspired inlaid floor. The Rotunda is also a favourite place to display a wedding cake.


The Ballroom is the largest indoor event space, accommodating up to 130 guests. It’s located in the newer wing but has all the grandeur of the main house, impressing with its ornate red wallpaper and gilded chandeliers. I’ve used the Ballroom as a ceremony space for larger groups, as well as for seated dinner receptions. (Setting up a marquee in the gardens is the alternative for guest counts beyond the Ballroom’s capacity.) And, of course, it’s the perfect place for dancing. So, for example, you could serve dinner in the Ballroom, then adjourn to the Saloon or Library for cake and champagne, before returning to the Ballroom to dance the night away.


If you’re planning a micro-wedding, the State Dining Room makes an impressive reception space for a smaller guest list (max 70 people). When Ballyfin wedding venue was a school, it was in this room that the Cistercian brothers used to hold their prayers, and it’s still heavenly today. Other options are to use the State Dining Room for a formal rehearsal dinner or as a wonderful alternative ceremony location.


If a really intimate wedding with just 20 guests is more your style, then I would recommend the splendid Van der Hagen Room, which is decorated with a set of early-Georgian classical grisaille paintings by William Van Der Hagen. Like the State Dining Room, it has a peaceful view looking out on to the Water Cascade.


Another space that makes a big impression is the stunningly beautiful Gold Drawing Room. The decoration here is French-inspired, with a vaulted ceiling and rich stucco work that has been meticulously restored. At its centre is a glittering chandelier, which came from the Paris town house of Queen Caroline of Naples. In times past, this is the room where guests would assemble before dinner. It still makes for a lovely cocktail hour option or a place for the wedding party to gather before the ceremony. (Note that no red wine is allowed here.) On rainy days, the Gold Drawing Room is also a great picture option.


For a wedding after party, there’s no better place than the cellar bar, which opens on to its own terrace. It feels like your own private little pub, where guests can swap stories and enjoy themselves late into the night. A converted Servant’s Hall, the bar is home to Ballyfin’s collection of contemporary Irish art, giving it a more modern feel. The basement area is also where the swimming pool is located and it’s a great place for any type of entertainment. There’s also a piano here. The Ballyfin Bar is accessed by two different sets of stairs and also has an elevator and outside entrance.

Ballyfin Accomodations

Ballyfin Demesne has twenty rooms in total – a variety of suites, state rooms, and deluxe rooms. Each is completely unique and decorated in period style. For example, the Westmeath Room, which is dominated by a carved French bed complete with coronet. One sweet detail is that each room also has a framed drawing by the interior designers of how they imagined the room. While the décor is sumptuous, it also feels cosy and homely, and the antique-filled rooms also offer all the modern amenities you would expect from a first class hotel.

Ballyfin also has the cutest two-storey Gardener’s Cottage tucked away into the corner of the walled garden. Fully refurbished, it has a spacious bedroom, two bathrooms, a private patio, small kitchen, and lots of surprises inside. It also makes a lovely option if you wanted to stay on after the wedding for a romantic mini-moon.

For larger weddings, you’ll find additional accommodation options nearby. 


An Irish destination wedding is really an opportunity to share the magic of the country with those you love and make new memories together in the process. So it’s important to include a few activities and events in the lead-up to the big day, and also point guests to options they can explore on their own. This is another area where Ballyfin really shines. The property has so many amenities and activities to offer. There really is something for everyone.

For example, there’s boating or fishing at the lake, archery, clay pigeon shooting and woodland walks. Bikes and golf carts are both available for guests to explore the property. You can even arrange a carriage ride! Those more interested in indoor pursuits will appreciate the guided history and art tours or the luxurious spa. There’s also an incredible china room in the basement, which houses an impressive privately-owned collection of Danica by Royal Copenhagen china.

Food is also a key part of the Ballyfin experience. Walk through the gardens and you’ll find beehives for honey and a walled garden that supplies the kitchen with fresh, seasonal produce. You can arrange to enjoy a picnic in the grotto, a barbecue in the courtyard, or a pre-wedding gathering in one of the event spaces. 

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ABOUT Alyssa

At home near the sea. Ever-focused on beauty and the thrilling art of creation; found in the moments that leave me breathless and in awe. 

Growing up, photos always fascinated me.  I was raised to be inquisitive, ask questions, and appreciate history.  What better way to peak someone's interest than with a photograph?  

I always thought I would end up in the pages of Vogue (though I still hope!), but after the tragic loss of my mother, I turned to wedding photography on a whim and fell in love with the energy that can only be found when two people decide on forever.  The overwhelming joy, nostalgia, and attention to detail captured my heart in 2012, and I never looked back.

I squeeze clients meetings in between nap times, and I drive my kids to school and daycare only to run into meetings with designers, florists, and beautiful clients before racing back to gather them back up again. The most amazing part, is that I feel most alive in this environment. Wedding days are chaotic, just like parenting.  Couples and families require empathy and genuine care, just like my children.  

I expertly navigate your wedding from my extensive experience in this industry, and what this offers you is the peace of mind on your wedding day to relax and enjoy what you have created. Booking with Alyssa Morgan Photography allows you to sit back, enjoy your party, and trust that every part of the day is going to be handled with ease, grace, and a whole lot of laughter along the way.

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